Tuesday, March 28, 2017

52 Weeks of Positiveness #12


Yeaaa... Happy Birthday Davidom!

 

 

My dear husband has just turned 33th uh yeaaaaaahh, xD
Happy Birthday my darling man, have a great years ahead filled with joy and dreams come true. God bless you abundantly and i hope you can be a blessing for others as well. 
I love you soooo gigazillion much :*

Wednesday, March 22, 2017

52 Weeks of Positiveness #11

I got a little surprise from my dear husband. 

y e a y y y y ..!

 

So, when i came home from work , i saw these delicious things on the table,

 

 hehehe, it's one of the things to be thankful for is not it?
life is hard, indeed. but somehow you have got to find your silver lining in your dark clouds. 
:)

Sunday, March 19, 2017

I Miss Manado, Damnit!


My old life, My Hometown, Family and Friends..


It has been 8 months since i left my dearest hometown, Manado and i already miss it like crazy, i miss the town, the people, the amazing food, the heat, the entertainments, even the crazy traffic..

I miss my old life there, it was such an easy life, we are not rich but everything is always ready for me . My mother was always there to take me everywhere i need, or i can drive myself if she was quite busy. I had a lunch everyday with my best friends and we talked and laughed so hard and did silly things together. We would then arrange our next holiday trip together. Now they are arranging it without me because i live so friggin' far away. aaaaa :/

I love my husband with all of my heart, but to be honest i feel very lonely too in here.  I knew it would be this hard when i decided to leave my comfort zone, but still when facing it right now, it feels really hard. I tried to look up for all the beauty and possitiveness in all thing every week, but there are times like this when i feel very gloomy.

Living in a very far away country and diferent continent like this make me appreciate all the easy things in Indonesia. Where all your need is delivered right to your doorstep. Fresh fruits, healthy food, there is always people who make everything a lot easier for you, you can find anything in Indonesia.

I miss the smell of the ocean, warm and salty, i miss the look of the sunset as it goes down beside Old Manado island, it was such a splendid view.
I miss my Mother's hug, the laugh of my goddaughters and my sisters, i miss all the joke with my old officemates, i miss my workplace computer desk, i even miss my neighbours. 

Oh i am in so much hope that my work opportunity will become real so i can start a good paying work and be able to go back Manado once again.

Please God, Please Please Please...
Have mercy on my poor soul.. 

Saturday, March 18, 2017

Milka Chocolate - Bubbly White




One of the best perks of living in Europe is how i get to taste all the delicious chocolates here. 
Dan M I L K A adalah cokelat pertama yang menyambut kedatangan saya disini. 

Milka ini adalah merek cokelat yang berasal dari Swiss sejak tahun 1901 dan diproduksi secara global oleh perusahaan Amerika Mondeléz International sejak 1990. Produksi cokelat ini pada tahun 2012 mencapai 140.000 ton loh.
 
Cokelat ini langsung lumer dengan hangatnya di mulut saya. Rasanya milky and sweetttt banget. 
Milka sendiri dijual di semua toko di Hungary dari yang besar sampai yang kecil, dan harganya cukup terjangkau. 
Saya benar-benar ketagihan sama cokelat yang satu ini, mulanya sering dibeliin Anya, tapi sekarang giliran saya yang nonstop beli tiap ada kesempatan. 
Milka memiliki beragam varian, kali ini saya post yang versi BUBBLY WHITE atau Coklat yang isinya coklat putih dicampur soda atau gelembung udara, karena pas di makan, coklat putihnya lumer dimulut sambil berasa gelembung-gelembung yang pecah di mulut hehe.
Berikut ringkasan singkat coklat ini versi saya,

 

52 Weeks of Positiveness #10


i t 's a P A Y I N G D A Y

Horeeeeee,
This week i got my First Official Paying from my work in Hungary. Wuhuwwwwww. I thank God for giving me the opportunity for a real work here, finally. After 8 months of looking for work wkwkwk. Though it's not as much as i used to get, it felt Heaven when i spent it hihihi. 
My first purchase was 2 Milka chocolates, 1 small Raffaelo, Banana, Cheese, Magnum Ice cream and other things hehe. And after that i made a Fried Banana poured with Cheese and Chocolate. hmmm yummy. 
It's my first time cooking this, usually i only buy or my Mom make it. As a Manadonesse, Fried Banana is like a daily Vitamin for us, Vitamin B to be exact haha. Manadonesse loooooveeeee fried Banana so much and an afternoon spent without it would be such a waste. But we usually eat Banana Fried with chili sauce, only today i made a special sweet edition which is not too Manadonesse. 
The Banana i used was a yellowish Banana which means the result was a bit oily, it would be perfect to make it with greenish Banana but in Hungary, Banana is an imported fruit so it is quite expensive, i am grateful enough at least we have Banana here. Long live Banana!

On my next payment i wish to make a Mini Martabak, wish me luck! :D
 

Tuesday, March 14, 2017

My Church in Hungary is probably will be closed

I never thought i would experience something like this,

Church being closed down is something i read one or two times in some articles, and now this is happening in my Church in Ajka. There are around 6 Churches in Ajka from Catholic, Reformatus and Evangelikus. Mine is Reformatus Church in Tósokberénd, Ajka.
During my first months, when i didn't know the operational hours of the church in Tósok, i went to the Catholic Church because it's the only Church which i know the service time. And eventually i got information about the other Church and i go there every week ever since. 

The priest is very helpful and speak english, although during service of course he preaches in Magyarul. He introduced me to a woman who can speak english and we became friends since then. 

The Reformatus Church in Tósokberénd congregation consist of around 100 people, unfortunately the amount of people who goes to church on weekly basis is only around 25-30 people. So 2 weeks ago i heard the information from the preacher that there is a possibility that the Church is going to be closed because of financial crisis as the operational cost for the utilities is quite expensive. So the people will be assisted to attend service in the downtown Church instead.

I am very sad to hear about this news.  

Personally, the experience i got in Ajka's christianity has been quite something compare to what we have in Manado.
Let's talk about some major points which can be seen easily :

. Building 
European's Architecture is very fascinating, it's like visiting a time machine. Building with old stone blocks from hundred years ago with it's art deco style, so many details, small windows and pillars , etc.
Ajka Tósok's Templom is quite the same, it is just simpler, no exquisite details, pilars and such. Just plain Church with it's old walls. I will take a picture of it next week when i go there.
Honestly the first time i saw this Church i thought it's already closed and out of service, because it looked so dull, cold and colorless.  During winter time we held the service not in the church but in the second building next to it, it's like a medium room built specially for winter service. Because it has a low ceiling which is good for cold wheather . It is very cold inside the Church in winter time because there is no radiator installed, so you can imagine how cold it is with high ceiling and old stone walls.
It is quite different with the Catholic Templom which looks nice and in a good maintenance. Good wall color, quite fascinating interior and most of all, looks alive.
If you look at Tósok Templom you will feel sad and alone. I think it's been quite a long time since it's last upgrade. Oh God, i feel very sad considering how the Church in my hometown Manado keep on upgrading to almost a luxury church as of this year.  

. Congregation
As i mention before, from the 100 people only 25-30 goes to Church everyweek. You can imagine how shocked i was when i first time attend the service. Compare to the people in my church in Manado, on Sunday we have 3 service times, early morning, morning and evening. In every service there are minimum 200-300 persons. And here, in The country with a Cross in it's Flag,the attendants only 10% from that. And mind you, Indonesia is a moslem majority country, so Christianity is a minority there.

. Community
I don't need to ponder hard as to why the people in Ajka Templom is getting lower and lower, the main reason is community. Communoty It is a very important part of a Church. I have to mention again how the community in My hometown Church is, in Manado we have around 4-10 preacher per Church, while in Ajka Templom only 1 preacher per Church. In Manado we have children community, teen community, youngadult community, mothers, fathers, old people and the last is mixed community. Each community has its own service day and time. And also has its own competition, for example Choir competition, Singing, Bible Quizz, Etc. The competition can be inside Church and also can be between Churches in Manado. The Regional Scale Competition is the biggest event. We do Parade during Christmas and Easter or during Church Anniversary, we visit the sick in hospital together, we go to orphanage, we do outside service ( beach or park themed service ), we do Birthday or Anniversary service , etc. All this services is held by the preachers and by the group leader. Usually every 5 years we have to choose 2 person as a group leader in the church, every 10-20 family has it's own leader, and these 2 people will help the preacher to do the service in a smaller community , like in a mothers weekly praying service. So, for example my hometown Church has not only almost 10 preachers, but also almost 70 group leaders. 
The community in Manado is alive. Unfortunately it is not the same with Church community in Ajka, we have only 1 preacher who is obviously cannot attend all the member's service all by himself, it is a very hard task for him. 
We are taught to lead a prayer since we still in sunday school, we are taught to lead a prayer and do biblical learning since we are in teen community service, so when we are older we can help each other everytime we have a prayer service. 
But in Ajka, when i attended the sunday school, there were roughly 5 children which were not even taught the Lord's prayer. 

I know it's about culture difference, but i think this difference is so massive it affects the Church life and now 1 Church is going to be shut.
  
I really hope and pray that the Church leaders in Hungary will open their eyes and start to do something.
I pray that God will show us the way.
Amen  


Saturday, March 11, 2017

My Newfound happyness, Chocolate Bar - STÜHMER Csokoláde


Dulunya cokelat hanyalah sebuah snack yang masih ga begitu penting buat saya, kalau ada syukur, ga adapun tetap syukur. Tapi sejak pindah ke Hungary, saya jadi jatuh cinta banget dengan namanya cokelat bar. Entah kenapa cokelat disini rasanya pada enak-enak, jauh dari rasa cokelat di Indonesia yang biasa saya makan kayak silverqueen, chunky bar, etc. Atau mungkin bisa jadi saya belum pernah beli cokelat mahal di Indonesia jadi belum pernah rasain yang bener-bener menggugah selera hahaha.

Ini dimulai sejak saya melakukan program menaikan berat badan, jadinya hampir setiap Anya belanja saya dibeliin cokelat, biasanya saya dibeliin Milka, dan pertamanya ngerasain saya bener-bener lumer, milky cokelat itu emang enaaaaaak sekali.

Akhirnya saya jadi keranjingan beli cokelat dan kebetulan di Hungary ini cokelatnya lumayan murah-murah dibanding di Indonesia, bentuk dan macamnya yang beragam dan rasanya yang beragam pula.

Oleh karena itu sekarang saya akan memulai perjalanan pembahasan cokelat yang saya makan hehee,
Dan akan dimulai dari cokelat pertama yang akan saya bahas adalah :

S T Ü H M E R Csokoláde  

Cokelat ini adalah pemberian suami dari kakak ipar saya dihari Perempuan tanggal 8 Maret kemarin. 

Dibuat asli dari perusahaan cokelat di Hungary oleh salah satu perusahaan tertua di dunia , seperti yang tertera di boxnya, yaitu since 1868!.
Stühmer sendiri adalah perusahaan pembuat cokelat terbesar di Hungary yang didirikan oleh Figyes Stühmer.

Sekotak isinya ada 6pcs chocolate, ( 3 pcs dimakan sama David hahaha ).
Kotaknya sangat elegan dengan warna merah menyala dari nama cokelatnya di atas kotak heksagon beraksen emas, dalemnya juga di package dengan elegan dengan aksen emas yang sama.
Mengenai rasa, Rasa cokelatnya kental banget dan ga terlalu milky, plus ada isinya loh, yaitu terbuat dari soya dan sedikit jus cherry, hmmmm yummmyyyyyy, finom finom finom! hehehe.
Berikut adalah sedikit infogram dari isi cokelat Stühmer ini. 

 

Friday, March 10, 2017

52 Weeks of Positiveness #9

Happy International Women's Day 

 

March 8th is the day of sweet surprises, i got chocolates from my Supervisor in workplace, from my husband when i am home, and from my brother in law also hahhhaa.
These are the sweet and nagyon finom chocolates that i have got,




So, for your information, International Women's Day is celebrated on March 8 every year. It commemorates the movement for women's rights. The earliest Women's Day observance was held on February 28, 1909, in New York and organized by the Socialist Party of America. ( Wikipedia ).

In Indonesia itself we do cherish the day , but i have never received any chocolates like this before . It really feels very special , a kind of valentine day where you get chocolates from your cruch or loved ones hahahaa. But for this special day, in Hungary , all men have to give chocolate for women, so it's a very very nice concept and it made my day. hehehee
I would like to say, Happy Women's day to every women in the world. I hope there will be less and less women who are under pressure, treated badly, raped, sexual and verbal harassment, i hope in countries where women still seen as second class human with less value than men, there will be a change in near future and women will be given same right as men.
I pray for women who is silently endure a bad treating by their family, especially their husband, please make up your mind and love yourself, don't ever let anybody take your rights and treat you without respect. Never take physical, sexual nor verbal harrasment as your 'women things' . Never ever put that in your mind, because women need to be respected and loved.

Please, Love yourself big enough to walk out from a condition where your brain tells you "you don't deserve this"

Saturday, March 4, 2017

52 Weeks of Positiveness #8


S U R P R I S I N G   O P P O R T U N I T Y


So 2 days ago i received a text from my ex Boss in Manado saying that he is coming back to France and already bought 2 hotels there, and he's wondering if i and David would like to join. OMG
Before i move here he once mentioned about me joining him someday if he ever coming back, but i never thought it would be real oneday hahahaaa. It's like receiving a Christmas Gift. I immediately pray to give my thanks to God , and told David about this good news. Both of our family was so happy with this news and i am soooo much glad and excited.

We will be talking about the details on skype later when he is already in France, probably next week. I am too much excited now heheheh. I hope we will have a better and clear details as to what will we do there, all the documents needed, accomodation and financial issue and not to mention the languange barrier.
Me and David will have to learn the basic french hehehe.

Ahhh, it's a very good week. Thank You Jesus.

God Provides.

Jeremiah 29:11
" For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future"
 

 

52 Weeks of Positiveness #7

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This was the week where nothing special came. Where no inspirations nor life changing things happened.
But at such times, i think it is best to just cherish everylittle things around us ;

. Winter's getting warm
. More sunshines
. Sweet air to breath in
. Fresh bread to eat
. Lover's to kiss
. Family to call
. Friends to laugh with 

These little things often forgotten, but i should be very thankful to God for His everlasting love for my poor soul. 

Keep on Faith