Mom is on Vacation, Daughter is in bliss
So, My mom has just back from her vacation to Hongkong and i am sooo happy hehehe.
My mom is a stay-at-home mom, she does all the mother's chores like cooking, cleaning, or washing while me and Dad working. Sometimes i do help her when i feel not too tired, and mostly on dinner time all of us would just go out and eat in a restaurant around Manado because my mom is not a huge fan of cooking wkwkkww. Beside from the house routines, she goes shopping all day from mall to mall, just refreshing and spend time while waiting for me and Dad finish our work. In the morning she would prepare our meal, drive me to work and go hang out with friends or shopping to kill the time, and in the afternoon she would pick me up at work. And she is enjoying it.
But since i have been here in Hungary, she told me how her life is so boring with nothing to do than just hang out and shopping. I know it sounds weird that anyone would be happy being able to spend time hanging out rather than working, but you know, my mom has been spending all her life taking care of me so when i moved she felt lost. Even shopping makes her bored.
So when i was able to help my mom on her vacation ( though not all, i just gave a little contribution from me ), i am so much happy.
I once took her to Singapore with me, then she and my Dad came here in Hungary and travelled the Europe, and now she's just came back from Hongkong.
This is such a blissfull moment for any children. Having to see my mother spend her time hang out, shopping and travel. It can somehow reduce her worryness towards me. I am so much blessed that God allowed me to see my mother happy and having the best time of her life.
My mom is a very strong woman and had spent most of her younger days to raise me in all of the shortcomings we had. Back then this kind of thing like travelling was just a cloud in the sky, something that's too far for us to reach. But now God gave us soo much blessings we could not contain it.
That is why this is such a big Possitiveness and Happiness that happened in my life this year. This one is deserved to be shared. Because it's not just about me, my happiness depends on all the people i love. My stress mostly comes from the sadness from all the people i love, if i see them on stress i would be stress too.
I wish i will have enough money to help my mother in law do her vacation as well. When i told her my mom was going for a vacay she said "aaah da jó" ( ohh, how good ). She said she's always wanted to travel as well. She had never been in an airplane before. And her daily routine was just doing housewife chores, period. no hangout, no chit chat in restaurant with friends.
She lives in such a contrast life with my mother. And she is in her old days now, so i think she shouldn't be doing too much housechores. Just take it easy and relax.
I pray that when me and David go back Manado, she and Appa can come as well so we can take them to a lot of beautiful places in Manado and hopefully in Bali. I would really love to take them to eat in restaurant in Manado. Because unlike Ajka, Manado is a city of restaurants hahha.
Well, this is it for now, Thank God for making me able to point out all the positiveness in my life. There are lot of negative as well, but i am trying my best to find the positive one and thankfully i have been able to found it.
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